Do you have a longing or a passion that is just bursting to come forth? Maybe you have been feeling inspired to complete your college degree,  write a book, start your own business, get into amazing shape or start a new relationship and create a family.  Perhaps you have been yearning to express yourself by finding your voice and discovering your unique qualities and gifts.  No doubt, you have imagined what your life may be like if you were to leave your comfort zone or that which is familiar and embark on the adventures of your heart.

There are times when we feel a sense of inspiration, or a compulsion to pursue our dreams, but we are often met with an inner critic that talks us out of taking action and moving forward. Our inner critic tells us that we are too old to get started now, we are not smart enough, or someone else is already doing “it.” In my coaching sessions and in conversations with people, it is interesting and almost humorous to note how pro-active, independent and decisive people are in multiple aspects of their lives, but when it comes to fulfilling a deep passion or a dream, I will commonly hear "in God’s timing," "this is not my time," or "when the time is right."

Year after year, we excitedly express that long-time dream of wanting to accomplish something, and like clock-work, our final words will be “one day.” Imagine putting your health, happiness, talents, and financial prosperity on layaway because you do not feel “it’s the right time” to pursue your goals.  If now is not the right time to take some sort of action, when is?

Indeed, it takes time to cultivate and grow one’s vision and sense of purpose, it takes time to learn about a new industry, develop new skills or earn a degree, and it takes time to attract that desired partner into your life — so yes, the actual manifestation of your dreams does take time, which is even more of a reason to get started now.  Your dreams are waiting on you to give them life and full expression. I assure you that your time is in the present moment…

Below are a few suggestions to assist you with saying yes to your purpose and passion: 

• Trust in Yourself:The reason you are having the same impulses month after month is that your ideas are resonating with your sense of purpose. You would not continue to have these visions of expanding your life in some way if you were incapable of bringing “it” into fruition. Trust in your abilities; regardless of past failures or circumstances, today is a new day and all that you have experienced will only support you in being even better at what you want to do.
• Protect Your Dream: If you have a vision or dream for your life, protect it. Stay clear of dream stealers and people who rain on your parade. Surround yourself with people who are positive and energetic and who are about something. If need be, join a club or a group so that you can connect with like-minded and supportive people. 
• Get Clear: Clarity is power, so take the time to get clear on your vision: what steps are required, what resources do you need, what kind of training is needed (if any), and what does the end result look like? The clearer you are, the more powerful you will be in your demonstration.
• Modeling: According to Thought Leaders, “Modeling” is one of the fastest ways to accomplish your dreams and to also build wealth. Modeling is a process of finding someone who is thriving in your desired field and studying the path they took to achieve their level of success. If you desire to be happier, more peaceful and balanced, find someone who exemplifies these qualities in their life and learn from them. This may be someone you know personally or a highly recognized speaker, author or celebrity.  Everyone has a story, and taking the time to learn about one’s story can be extremely helpful to all of us. 

Consider enrolling in my 60-Day Total Immersion Program to get support and coaching around some of this as well.

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you’ve imagined."  ~ Thoreau

All the Best!
Thulani